- Trigger: Walk from your child’s room into your bedroom
- Time: Any time of day
- Season: Summer, Autumn, or Winter
- Requirements:
- You have a son
- Your son is awake and in his room
- Your spouse is not in the child’s room
As you pass from your son’s room toward your own bedroom, you notice something’s off—he’s sitting quietly, a troubled expression on his face. Sensing something is wrong, you stop to check in on him.
He hesitates at first, but eventually opens up about a heartache he’s going through. Maybe he had a falling out with a friend, or maybe he’s experiencing feelings he doesn’t fully understand yet. He’s confused, frustrated, and unsure of how to handle it all.
You have a few ways to respond:
| Response | Notes |
|---|---|
| “Do you want to talk about it?” | +10 Friendship, builds trust |
| “You’ll be fine, just forget it.” | -10 Friendship |
| “Everyone feels like that sometimes.” | +5 Friendship |
If you’re supportive and patient, your son feels a little better, knowing he’s not alone. He might not say much more, but the comfort you give makes a difference. If you dismiss him, he retreats emotionally, not ready to open up again anytime soon.
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